The Government of Indonesia is currently in the period drafting the Draft of Criminal Code. However, the current Criminal Code Draft has the potential to criminalize and discriminate all of us as citizens, primarily the marginalized, poor, children and women.
Recently, Indonesia’s House of Representatives (Dewan Perwakilan Rakyat) and the Government is reported to approve to continue to expand the draft on criminal acts of adultery in the current Criminal Code.
The current Draft of Criminal Code has the power to punish the poor because most of them have no documents of marriage legality. The phrase “legitimate marriage” to prove the validity of a “husband and wife” relationship will result in millions of married couples with no archived evidence of marriage and their children becoming victims.
Victims of rape will be prosecuted for committing adultery outside of marriage. Surely this is not fair and will cause a very heavy injustice polemic against the victim.
Criminalizing sexual relations outside of legitimate marriage bonds has the potential to increase the marriage rate of children because being unmarried becomes more risky and criminally detrimental than married. This has the potential to increase the rate of marriage of children (with the status quo of 25% of married underage girls in Indonesia).
In this case, it will certainly increase more groups of people who will race the race to become the ‘moral police’ and interfere with the privacy of others. House raids, boarding houses, apartments and other privacy rooms will be more prevalent if this draft is legalized.
Not only that, the current Draft of Criminal Code also criminalize girls more than boys, because it provides criminal penalties on extramarital sex, girls who experience unwanted pregnancies or require reproductive and curative reproductive health services may be subject to imprisonment.
In addition, there is a matter of special protection that is conditional only for the “good kids” which means it will only be valid for children who is “not married” in some cases.
The draft also hampered the 12-year education program because marriage will increasingly be perceived as a rational choice to avoid imprisonment due to extramarital sex behavior. In fact, once married, the children, especially girls, they tend to leave school.
I’m here to ask all of you, especially fellow radical feminists, even some of you out there who calls yourself a feminist or simply those who’re aware of injustice, to help me, hand-in-hand, help us by signing the petition in refusing this regulation to be legalized.
Following discussion with countless guys, it is safe to say there is no universal agreement on what hurts most. For some it’s the closure or removal of the frontal cavity, for others it’s the penile implant, and there are those who say something else entirely. Whatever it is, don’t be stubborn about it, do everything you can to manage your pain as well as possible. There’s no gold star for enduring more than others, and it can lead to some of the worse complications.
The second worse pain I experienced was the 1st time I deflated my penile implant. The pump is of course placed right next to the incision made to insert it, with the net result being that a fairly fresh incision, or the skin immediately next to it is being squeezed very hard. Your scrotum is still tender and swollen from the surgery, when this insult to injury occurs. Bring a stress ball, possibly a gag ball, and remember the nurse cares about you even as you see stars from the intense pain.
The third worse pain I experienced were bladder spasms. Thank goodness, I didn’t experience them every time I had a catheter, just the once. This was a pain I didn’t pick up on fast enough, and I nearly wrecked myself, literally. They’re quite common when we have a Foley catheter in for a while, and it’s our bladders trying to expel it.
Once you start taking the most commonly prescribed medication to handle it, graft a water bottle to your hand to deal with the dry mouth until your catheter’s removed.
Anonymous asked:
Dysphoria is the difference between being transgender and gender non-conforming. If the only reason you'd consider yourself trans is coming from outside influences (ex. Society and gender roles) and not from inside discomfort (sex dysphoria) you're gnc but not transgender. And that's okay! That's perfectly normal!!! It's just hard to see people with different experiences coopt the trans label. It makes our struggles seem social and not biological :( not tryna hate just hope you can understand
While I appreciate the nice tone of this message, its still not correct. pain is not what defines your gender. being trans is not a medical condition. i recommend looking at the articles on dysphoria on everydayfeminism, because frankly i dont have the energy to keep fighting people over whether im allowed to exist or not.
A woman with Asperger’s who posted a touching viral video with her service dog last summer has been shot dead by police.
Danielle Jacobs was killed by Mesa, Arizona, officers on Thursday after they arrived at her apartment for a suicide call around 11 a.m., her mother Stacia confirmed to the Daily News.
Police told local media that the 24-year-old came at them with a knife and they fired in self-defense.
Jacobs had garnered international attention last year for posting a courageous video where she sobs as her loving dog Samson provided comfort during a meltdown and used his paws to stop her hitting herself.
“This is what having Asperger’s like,” she wrote alongside the clip, and told the Huffington Post, “When I have a meltdown, I often have self-injurious behavior and I often self-harm.”
The video has been made private, though up until three days before her death she posted videos of the canine comforting her during outbreaks of anxiety.
So from what I’m gathering from the information given is: in this day and age, with all the resources afforded our law enforcement, they still choose to shoot rather than using a less lethal way to disarm a mentally distraught woman with a knife.
It’s like they were just reinforcing her suicide. She went at them with a knife knowing how they would respond because, she wanted to die. So that’s what happened. She brought a knife to a gun fight. There were other ways to take her down and get her help rather than shooting to kill.
NOTE: His name was Kayden Clarke. Kayden was a trans man, not a woman as the mainstream media is reporting. Kayden faced severe transphobia and had his access to testosterone blocked by his transphobic psychiatrist, who refused to prescribe it. Kayden Clarke was suicidal and depressed, weighed on by his gender dysphoria. He is a casualty of transphobia and ableism and police militarism, and the least we can do is respect who he was.
(teleports to 13th century europe) Nobody on their phones. What a beautiful sight :) (peasant beside me cherishes his last gasp of amazement at my clean ass jordans as he dies of common fever)
Reason #8963 men suck: They prefer women with makeup and go so far as to say it’s upsetting to see a woman without makeup on. Women are so fucking hot naturally. I love the slight changes in color in a woman’s natural skin. The way her cheeks may be a slightly cooler pink than her forehead. Or when her lips are full of life and well moisturized wrapping around a big smile. There’s nothing prettier than the natural shine on the highlights of a woman’s face, her nose tip, the cheekbones, the chin and just above the brows. When freckles cover her skin, when she glows in the sun or beneath the moon.
How could you prefer red lipstick, contoured faces and cat eyes? Most men aren’t attracted to women, they’re attracted to plastic sex dolls and pin up posters, and want a female body to replicate those as best as possible. It’s really sad.
Have you talked to any males over the age of like 15? Most grown men prefer the natural look on women. They may like a little bit of makeup because makeup highlights natural beautiful features when you do more casual look (or just do it right). There are huge groups of men that even view makeup, especially heavy duty makeup used, as just a straight up lie, gross, and they hate it. I’m not saying that’s right either, but this idea that men only like us when we have makeup is just disingenuous.
I honestly can’t even begin to wrap my brain around where you got this idea from.
I also want to say that men who can enjoy the artistry that goes into makeup are not bad. Liking when a woman puts some extra effort into her appearance isn’t inherently bad. I’m not saying that makeup is the only way to do this, don’t take this the wrong way at all, but I would say this is the idea behind it. Kind of like seeing a guy in a suit or something.
Women will always be under supervision of a responsible male. Females behaving in a manner likely to result in bastard children will be sent to “homes for wayward girls”, and will not be able to get out of the home except they get engaged to a responsible male, or their father takes charge of them.
Women will work under the supervision of husbands or father, or in specifically feminine jobs like nursing under the supervision of older women. Women will be able to be doctors, vets, dentists and and such, though there will be islamic style restrictions on dealing with male patients. A female dentist with male patients will be working under the supervision of an older woman or her husband or father. Women make fine doctors, and better dentists, nurses, and veterinarians than men. Supermarkets will continue to be staffed by females, mostly young girls killing time waiting to become wives. And, as I said, women make excellent managers provided that they are under the supervision of someone alpha, masculine, patriarchal, and sexy.
Divorce will be only for cause, and reasonable and proportionate domestic discipline will be legal. Speaking back will be grounds for reasonable and proportionate domestic discipline. A wife sleeping with another man, or another man sleeping with your wife, will get the death penalty, and also be grounds for justifiable homicide, as in the time of King Solomon. If a wife runs away, she has to run back to her father, or she is likely to be sent to a home for wayward girls, and will find it very difficult to get out except by returning to her husband.
Homes will be enormously cheaper, because we will reverse the great centralization, make it legal for white people to develop land for housing, and will introduce law and order Singapore style, so that you don’t have to live in an very expensive location to avoid being attacked by minorities. Education will be enormously cheaper, because we will reverse degree inflation. Most people will complete schooling at or before puberty and go on to apprenticeship. Apprenticeship agreements, like marital vows, will be enforceable and enforced. Female apprentices will generally be under the authority of the wife of the master.
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James A. Donald, replying in the comments under his post “
Main conclusion: the writer of the main post is an extremely unpleasant person who associates with other extremely unpleasant people and the whole lot is best avoided.
Secondary conclusion: the commenter quoted above should hurry up and convert to an abrahamic religion already. I was literally wondering if I was reading a plan for an Islamic country for most of the way through. Also, his plan is nearly the best possible scenario for fostering rampant rape and sexual abuse that I can imagine.
It’s really weird how the right wingers most likely to be screeching about Shari'a law are the ones most likely to want a regime barely discernable from shari'a.
hey can we all stop reblogging this post its literally made by a bunch of truscum and no, throwing nonbinary people under the bus isnt trans activism
Why would people stop reblogging the truth?
^^^
Also this post is about trans men, no one mentioned non binary people. Unless you’re admitting it’s just hair dyes and a very specific political agenda that makes one non binary?
Why is it so crazy to you that a trans person would want to, gasp, transition?
Post: *Doesn’t mention NBs at all*
This cave fungus: YOU’RE THROWING NB PEOPLE UNDER THE BUS REEEE